Pamela Anderson wishes she had a better relationship with Tommy Lee

Pamela Anderson wants her to be in a better relationship ex-husband Tommy Lee.

The actress and model appeared on SiriusXM Andy Cohen Live on Thursday, January 9, where she opened up about her relationship with Lee, who she was married to from 1995 to 1998.

“I think we used to talk a lot more,” said Anderson, 57. “Unfortunately, not recently, but you know, I wish we had a better relationship right now.”

Anderson and Lee have two sons together, Brandon Thomas (28) and Dylan Jagger (27). She added that since Dylan is now engaged, she hopes the two will have a better relationship in the future.

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“My youngest son is engaged and we are going to have grandchildren together,” she said. “Finally, everything will be fine. Right now, it’s just a moment.”

Anderson and Lee, 62, began dating in December 1995 and married just four days later in Cancun, Mexico. When they returned to the United States, Anderson moved in with Lee, whose home was undergoing renovations at the time. Then an electrician who had been fired stole the sex tape of the two, leading to a $10 million lawsuit to try to stop its distribution. Lee admitted that the now infamous ordeal put a strain on their relationship.

“Not being able to do anything … with (the tape) caused so much frustration and stress in our relationship,” he said on the 2014 episode. 20/20. “It just consumed us.”

In 1998, Lee was arrested on a charge of spousal abuse and sentenced to six months in prison after Anderson filed for divorce. She called her divorce “the hardest, lowest, hardest point of my life.” in his 2023 memoir, Love, Pamela.

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Anderson and Lee briefly dated again after Lee's release, but the relationship did not last.

In the time since Anderson is married four additional times. She and Kid Rock They tied the knot in 2006 before splitting just a year later. She was then married to a professional poker player Rick Salomon twice, in 2007-2008 when their marriage was annulled, then in 2014-2015. Anderson married her bodyguard Dan Hayhurst in 2020 and they divorced in 2022.

As for Lee, the Mötley Crüe drummer married an actress Brittany Furlan in 2019.

Anderson elaborated on her feelings for Lee in her memoir, writing about the importance of being a parent to him.

“Tommy is the father of my children and I am eternally grateful,” she wrote. “My relationship with Tommy was probably the only time I've ever been in love.”